Debate: Gay Marriage

Nah, not to you, but the others who would be confused about it.

tahts called experimenting
i guess some ppl might want to do it and others really need it while others dont have a problem to try
anyway.. i dont intend to xD

Gays should do what they want, they have totally equal right to everyone else.

Got that one right.. But I wish they didn't get a child. Just for the child's own sake..

well soak it up then because gay people have already addopted children and are giving them everything from love, knowledge and comfort. And im sure kids enjoy it.

p.s. those kids dont become homosexuals -_-'

daryo wrote:p.s. those kids dont become homosexuals -_-'

Well thay can if they want

No shit?


I just wonder this ATOMIC, you are an english person... but you make way more obvious spelling mistakes then I.. Is that because you are not English, or are you dislexic?
Just wondering!

maybe it's because he doesn't give a damn as long as you understand what he means?

daryo wrote:well soak it up then because gay people have already addopted children and are giving them everything from love, knowledge and comfort. And im sure kids enjoy it.

p.s. those kids dont become homosexuals -_-'

that kid would well get bullied at school

Indeed, that's what I'm saying.

I don't doubt the fact that two homosexual could take care of a baby and love it. No doubt they're as capable of doing it as any other heterosexual pair.
But the fact that the kid would get bullied as damn is one major reason for gays not to get a child. It's almost sure that the kid would get teased, you know people are so narrow-minded.

Also, there is a possibility that the kid wouldn't feel comfortable itself if its parents were gay. It could feel strange for sure.

exactly, i mean what if the kid was homophobic lol

*Hule* wrote:Also, there is a possibility that the kid wouldn't feel comfortable itself if its parents were gay. It could feel strange for sure.

no. if the child was adopted at early age this would seem very normal to him. And no he wouldnt become homophobic. You become homophobic by the influence of your family and your social circle (something similar to being racist...you pick it up from your parents and friends) or if you are a latent gay hating yourself because of actually being one.

and the child being bullied is not something gay parents are guilty of. But bullies and their parents ARE on the other hand (parents mostly for bringing them up in a wrong way).

I just wonder this ATOMIC, you are an english person... but you make way more obvious spelling mistakes then I.. Is that because you are not English, or are you dislexic?
Just wondering!

Little bit off-topic, but I relate to how you feel. Spelling mistakes don't make you faster (like chat lango does), it just makes you look stupid.

cobRa wrote:exactly, i mean what if the kid was homophobic lol

LOL, that'd be a nightmare-scenario

daryo wrote:

*Hule* wrote:Also, there is a possibility that the kid wouldn't feel comfortable itself if its parents were gay. It could feel strange for sure.

no. if the child was adopted at early age this would seem very normal to him. And no he wouldnt become homophobic. You become homophobic by the influence of your family and your social circle (something similar to being racist...you pick it up from your parents and friends) or if you are a latent gay hating yourself because of actually being one.

and the child being bullied is not something gay parents are guilty of. But bullies and their parents ARE on the other hand (parents mostly for bringing them up in a wrong way).

Agree 100%.
Homosexuality is not genetic, nor is homophobia. It's the parents' choice if they want to adopt a kid, and that kid is subsequently bullied at school because of it. If they want to, let them, as long as they're aware of it. There shouldn't be a law, and people shouldn't force decisions upon civil partners. Ergo, let gays be gays.

Matthew wrote:

daryo wrote:

*Hule* wrote:Also, there is a possibility that the kid wouldn't feel comfortable itself if its parents were gay. It could feel strange for sure.

no. if the child was adopted at early age this would seem very normal to him. And no he wouldnt become homophobic. You become homophobic by the influence of your family and your social circle (something similar to being racist...you pick it up from your parents and friends) or if you are a latent gay hating yourself because of actually being one.

and the child being bullied is not something gay parents are guilty of. But bullies and their parents ARE on the other hand (parents mostly for bringing them up in a wrong way).

Agree 100%.
Homosexuality is not genetic, nor is homophobia. It's the parents' choice if they want to adopt a kid, and that kid is subsequently bullied at school because of it. If they want to, let them, as long as they're aware of it. There shouldn't be a law, and people shouldn't force decisions upon civil partners. Ergo, let gays be gays.

True, true.

Boomlala wrote:A lot of women experiment in college.

Hawt, hawt.

gay marriage must be accepted... im 100% for it!

why not.. come on.. if you love some1 let them be with them and give each other a promise for the rest of our lives...

its like: OH only white people may marry.. Black ones cant.. people with red hair cant marry only blondes can.. why does every1 has to be the same.. if you love some1 let them marry

and the people who shout GAYS ARE IEUW the loudest are maybe gay themselves and dont want to commit that.

sry double post but the thing about gays having a child

the kid wont become gay.. well maybe he will but thats something in the DNA.. if you are born and it has gay in your DNA you are gay... but you'll discover yourself at some age.. some will know that when they are 11 some will only know that when they are 50.. example a married guy ( guy /woman) discovered he was gay at 40... so he divorced... its just something you are born with same thing like blue eyes black hair blablab

Falc0n wrote:the kid wont become gay.. well maybe he will but thats something in the DNA.. if you are born and it has gay in your DNA you are gay... but you'll discover yourself at some age.. some will know that when they are 11 some will only know that when they are 50.. example a married guy ( guy /woman) discovered he was gay at 40... so he divorced... its just something you are born with same thing like blue eyes black hair blablab

True and not true.

I think gay people are born gay, but that it is a matter of time before they discover and acknowledge it. But I don't think it's stored in the DNA, but more of a psychological factor. But it's still a mystery why people are precisely gay.

we can only make assumptions....
so lets w8 and we will discuss it again at '50s

i read about that dna part :O! and i talked with alot of gays.. i dont think some1 becomes gay when he is surrounded by gay people and stuff :O or when your dads are saying go out with this boy ( and he becomes gay) so i think its stored in the dna :O

. i dont think some1 becomes gay when he is surrounded by gay people and stuff :O or when your dads are saying go out with this boy ( and he becomes gay) so i think its stored in the dna

I agree with you.

But your theory about DNA is just an assumption. Like I said, the cause of homosexuality is still a scientific mystery, and I think DNA would be a too simple answer for it. Maybe there is some relation between it, but I think a lot of factors come into play.

Lol a scientific mystery wtf.

A scientific mystery is something scientists still don't know all about it. Like black holes.

Boomlala wrote:

. i dont think some1 becomes gay when he is surrounded by gay people and stuff :O or when your dads are saying go out with this boy ( and he becomes gay) so i think its stored in the dna

I agree with you.

But your theory about DNA is just an assumption. Like I said, the cause of homosexuality is still a scientific mystery, and I think DNA would be a too simple answer for it. Maybe there is some relation between it, but I think a lot of factors come into play.

Maybe something in the brain didn't develope properly..
that is also an assumption =P.